If in family's baby reach 3 years old, have not been the parents definitely to have such experience: For the little small matter or simply not why, the kid does cry greatly noisily, is heavily engaged, until whole family Yang Mafan, exhausted.
2 year-old about kid especially so, really lets be the parents to think oneself pay all Ido brand make the bubble, thus disappointed - loved him in vain to kid's willful big feeling.
In fact, this and baby willful slightly irrelevant, the little darlings correct use belongs to their way to attract your attention, therefore cries I with me to tell you him not to be unsatisfied. Certainly this way is the child-like with difficulty automatic control (such young child, how do you also think him to be able). Such sentiment divulges the mood which helps them to get rid anxious and is agitated, also has certain profit to the physical and moral integrity.
Then, can the babies actually why get angry?
Reason one: They are too after all young, the lengthy speech, will not have used the spoken language all injuries which will receive the sentiment to express; But, they actually are very simultaneously clear happily their wicked. That is, they already had the very formidable self-idea, actually suffers from is unable to express. This lets them look like the bomb which momentarily can detonate, lets the parents be virtually impossible to guard against.
For instance, in the supermarket, the time kid who must pay up by you were thought well originally the clown toy has been infatuated with, you will certainly not take out money buy such thing, but he will start to cry, said that oneself will feel not well, must look for father and mother ......Therefore all people look at you, you thought that on the face has a fever. Public area's this kind of outbreak is most awfully, the parents are very difficult under the vision which the people scolded to persevere the battleline, but, shouldn't manifest suddenly? He wants the same thing, but you do not buy to him, he has gotten angry, and has displayed explicitly. He accepted the limit actually not to give up telling others his existence.
Such behavior caused the parents to undergo stern test on own love, although the kids did not hope this. To them, important is not after all are again many a toy, but all the time has parents' love. No matter happy sad, no matter elephant angel or devil, although blubbers, but mother that loves me. This idea is lets the human happy even have the pleasant sensation very much. Therefore the ignition not only has gives vent with the release action, correct processing, will also make the babies to strengthen self-confidently. Because just believed firmly that oneself is doted on by the parents, after the baby sends the fire, only then relaxes is also happy, usually equally was likely peaceful naturally.
Reason two: This age's child already started to hope that has the control to the thing, but they saw was still own incompetent. In saw when beyond control wants the control the thing, the kids except yell not to have other method with the tear to express their anger.
Some mother, she 2-and-a-half year-old son frequently in the time which eats meal refuses mother with the ladle to feed him, and overturns the tray in the place. Therefore, cries, noisy, hits the buttocks, but regardless of what kind, he frequently like this is noisy. Until one day, her son might use the small bucket to eat meal, this kind of situation only then gradually announced ends.
This mother's son is likely same, 1-3 year-old baby thought that he enough supported oneself enough has also grown up, might no longer regard as by the parents the child, this was also precisely they want saying that although only could use the body language to express. Their small face suppresses very red, big light its fire, often is to oneself, but must to outside.
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